I keep finding the truest expressions right before the toast, so I park a 35mm at f/1.8, ISO 3200, silent shutter on, and watch for the glass to hover and the shoulders to drop. At 9:12 pm in the Hotel Marlowe ballroom last night, the best candid was three seconds after applause when the couple exhaled and glanced sideways — anyone else timing bursts for that little breath after the big moment?